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Qray, get out! This is the... Oh, erm, right. I guess I should probably leave too.
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I just had the most ridiculous emotionally rollercoastery 3 hours ever. I feel like I don't know which way is up and I'm torn in half. Sweet. :( I don't even know what emotion I should be feeling right now.
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OK FM enough with what ever you are smoking.

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God I wish it was that... Ugh.
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no, no, drug are bad. no drug's.
so what got you all exited?

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I'm calm now so I will try to give an explanation.

Talking to one of my ex's last night about how I really miss her and shes all I can think about, blah blah blah blah. It is revealed that she still has feelings for me also etc, etc. The ends reasonably well.

A few hours later I get a message on facebook saying "Me and X broke up because of XYZ. I don't think I really wanna talk for a while."

I said "Ok thats cool, talk to me when you feel up to it." I had no intentions of trying to rekindle a relationship immediately, I just enjoy talking to her.

I then get "I don't think that anything is ever going to happen between us again." (The us being me and her)

I say "Why not? We both still have feelings for each other. I didn't say anything about it anyway. How can you say that after the conversation we had earlier..." ended with "I hope I didn't cause the breakup that would make me feel awful"

We then continue to have a conversation through instant messenger, which honestly I don't remember half of because I was so upset/confused.

At some point I again asked why we would never be together again and she said "I never said that" (Or something to that effect) and then when I called her on it she said that she was upset and therefore I shouldn't really listen to anything she said. We bickered and made up and bickered some more and nothing really conclusive happened. She is incapable of rational thought or critical thinking when under emotional stress so I'll give her that one.

Anyway it was just all very confusing. And I don't know what I should do. I think I'm just gonna give her some time and see what happens.
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FantasyMan wrote:Anyway it was just all very confusing. And I don't know what I should do. I think I'm just gonna give her some time and see what happens.
It sounds like you already have the answer. Don't make any decisions in the heat of the moment.
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I try not to, which is why I tried to leave as many of my responses that night as open ended as possible.
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Sounds very...complicated, my dear. lol I SINCERELY hope things work out & that you are reunited with this girl if you care for her. I know how that feels, believe me.
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